Practical strategies to prevent and repair family conflicts

Screen Time Agreements
That Stick Kit

  • Do you feel like a police officer or a pushover?
  • Exhausted by power struggles but don’t want to give up on what’s important to you?
  • Want peace of mind about your child’s technology use?
  • No more sneaking, lying, nagging, or whining.
  • No giving up on what’s important to you.
  • The kit includes a clear explanation of the surprising reason screen time agreements don’t stick and a proven methodology for creating new ones you don’t need to enforce.
  • Do you feel like a police officer or a pushover?
  • Exhausted by power struggles but don’t want to give up on what’s important to you?
  • Want peace of mind about your child’s technology use?
  • No more sneaking, lying, nagging, or whining.
  • No giving up on what’s important to you.
  • The kit includes a clear explanation of the surprising reason screen time agreements don’t stick and a proven methodology for creating new ones you don’t need to enforce.
Two photos, taken several years apart, of Lisa and her husband and two sons

“My relationship with my daughter was forever changed by the work we did. My daughter trusts me now and we seldom have conflicts anymore. Our relationship is now really open and great.”

Headshot of Jessica Bradshaw

Jessica Bradshaw

“In the first session, we quickly got a strategy for me and my partner to be teammates with our kids. And with a few more sessions, I managed to get more at peace with my eight-year-old son, my father, and myself. Lisa’s got the magic that people get from doing for decades what they are passionate about. She attends both to the urgency of the situation and the long term work that is needed.”

Vincent Rueda

Ericeira, Portugal

When we know how to speak truth with care
we move from rupture to repair.

When we know how to speak truth with care we move from rupture to repair.

Welcome to Stop Family Conflict. I’m so glad you’re here.

My name is Lisa Rothman. For 20 years, I’ve been giving families the skills they need to finally get along.

If you’ve tried a million things but can’t stop the same fights from happening…

If you’re tired of feeling like a police officer or a pushover (sometimes both on the same day)…

You’re in the right place.

I have a number of offerings, all designed to meet you and your family exactly where you’re at— whether you’re miserable from morning to night, or you just have that one sticky conflict that’s a thorn in your side, or you’re simply looking for more collaboration so you don’t feel so alone.

Whatever your situation is, I’ve probably already helped somebody get through something similar. And even if I haven’t, the tools I’ve discovered and created are adaptable to conflicts of any size.

“We talked with our kids about what we learned from Lisa. We explained how to approach a conflict situation so it can result in a positive outcome for all involved. Lisa helped us see conflicts we deal with as a family in a new light.”

Monica Lin and Edmund Chun

Parents of Gabriel and Julian, Oakland

“As an educator, I am looking forward to using the tools Lisa shares with my so-called ‘trouble-makers,’ many of whom are dealing with trauma. As a mother, I appreciate the emphasis on repair.”

Michelle Remy

Sierra Vista PE Teacher